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Stress and burnout

Stress and burnout: noticing when your load is too heavy

A compassionate guide to everyday stress, possible signs of burnout and small ways to protect your capacity.

Last reviewed: 22 October 2026 · Reviewed by: Professional review slot, to be assigned

Stress is a normal response to demands, change and uncertainty. It can sometimes help us focus. When it goes on for too long, or when there is not enough support or recovery, it can affect sleep, mood, concentration and physical health.

What overload can look like

You may feel constantly tired, detached, irritable or unable to switch off. Tasks that once felt manageable may take much more effort. Some people keep going on adrenaline, then feel suddenly flat. These experiences deserve attention, not self-criticism.

Burnout is often discussed in relation to work. It is not a diagnosis to make by yourself. A healthcare professional can help explore what is going on and rule out other causes of exhaustion.

Make the next step smaller

When everything feels urgent, choose the smallest useful action. Drink water. Send one message. Put a task on tomorrow’s list. Take a two-minute screen break. A small pause cannot fix an unreasonable workload, but it can create a little space to see your choices.

Boundaries can be practical

Boundaries do not have to be dramatic. They might be a realistic finish time, fewer notifications, a clearer handover, or a sentence such as, “I can do this by Friday, or I can do that today.” If work is contributing, a trusted manager, union representative or occupational health contact may be able to help.

Recovery needs support

Rest is more than productivity in disguise. Support, healthcare, financial security and workload changes can matter too. If you are struggling to cope, speak to a GP or mental health professional. You do not have to wait until you have reached a breaking point.

When to get professional help

If these experiences are affecting your safety, daily life, relationships or sleep, consider talking with a GP, therapist or another qualified professional. You deserve support that fits your situation.

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